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Aug 29, 2023Liked by Marisa Russello

To answer your question, I do everything for my mental health. If it’s dishes (not on my life a machine) I do so mindfully. Ditto cleaning, laundry, gardening, driving. I’ve been told I’m a bit OCD. I was for decades told I have intractable anxiety. Bipolar 2, then 1, drugged right into neurotoxicity.

For my health I slowly got off medication, one substance at a time. The more I got off, the better I felt.

Joy is everywhere; you have to choose it, you have to work at it, it ain’t always easy, but it is so worth it.

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Doing everything mindfully sounds like a great practice. I can't believe you got off all the meds! Wow, I kind of wish I could do that, but I don't know how. Plus I'm sure my family would never let me.

I'm glad you're feeling better!

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Sep 4, 2023Liked by Marisa Russello

Hahaha not laughing at but because I too do that thing with comments and replies.

That's awesome! Glad you found something that works.

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Aug 29, 2023Liked by Marisa Russello

Ooof that is terrible. I almost gave up on therapy my first try because I was told I was just lonely and didn't have ADHD because I'd never failed school or lost a job (a few months after that I did in fact lose a job so thanks!)

I kept trying but finding someone who fits insurance and schedules is so frustrating.

I found my current therapist on Pyschology today and after using their filters I picked based on her profile picture having an animal with her lol. She's older and I'm always afraid shes going to retire and I'm going to have to start over.

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Oh yeah, scheduling is a whole other complication! I'm very lucky right now that my insurance covers my therapy 100%, so no copay. Finding someone who took insurance and was available was hard though—I used Psychology Today too! My new therapist is young, one of the reasons I picked her, but I also look for people who seem friendly in their photos! An animal would definitely help lol.

(reposting this comment b/c I forgot to hit reply!)

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